Video.js Show play button only when paused

I am currently using video.js on my website.

I have made controls false, which also hides the play button.

I am looking to have the play button display only when the video is paused, and not display whilst the video is playing.

I tried the following , but it doesn't work.

videojs("myPlayer").ready(function(){
  var myPlayer = this;
  myPlayer.on("paused", function(){
    myPlayer.bigPlayButton.show();
  });
});

Thank you!